Dec 13, 2023
When considering a big decision, do you ever say, “Well, someday…” Want to know how to shift from that “someday” to “today”?
Being unmessablewith starts with your goals and dreams. It is important that you find your dream source, speak your goals out loud, strip off that “someday” mindset, and act today!
Josselyne Herman-Saccio has been a master coach in The Art of Being Unmessablewith for more than 30 years and has coached more than 200,000 people. She is an author, entrepreneur, former #1 po-star (yep, pop-star), founder of a nonprofit, and a wife and mother of three. She has a passion for empowering people to realize their dreams NOW vs SOMEDAY. She helps them develop themselves as unmessablewith no matter what life throws at them.
In this episode, Josselynne shares her powerful secrets on how you can be the boss of your life and business and become unmessablewith!
What you will learn from this episode:
- Learn how you can be unmessablewith by finding your dream source
- Understand the importance and power of speaking your goals out loud
- Find out why “someday” doesn’t exist and why you should stop holding onto it
“Goal setting is very powerful, as long as you treat it like a game, not an expectation.”
- Josselyne Herman-Saccio
Topics Covered:
01:57 - Josselyne shares how she got to her “someday” dream
03:01 - Josselyne walks us through what she does every day
04:07 - What is a typical big message problem that people encounter
08:04 - Josselyne talks about what is a dream source
10:00 - How do you know if you have found your dream source?
10:29 - The life-changing power of speaking dreams out loud
12:51 - Josselyne shares her thoughts on goal-setting
14:12 - Is it sufficient to do goal debriefing by yourself or with others?
14:48 - Does someday actually exist or is it just in our minds?
16:14 - Q: What does unmessablewith mean? A: What I mean by being unmessablewith is being able to create moment to moment and not get reactivated, not get hooked, not get stopped or thrown down for the count.
Key Takeaways:
“Creating with your word, whether you speak it out loud, or in your head is a very powerful thing. And when you speak it out loud, it exists beyond your head. It exists in my relationship with you, or with whoever's listening to this conversation right now. Then you start to fulfill what you've created through action.” - Josselyne Herman-Saccio
“It's no different with any dream or vision that you have. You first start it by creating it in language and word, speaking it, and then take the actions to fulfill what you created.” - Josselyne Herman-Saccio
“You create it, you act on it, you engage with people about it, you make requests, you make promises-- it's all interacting with human beings.” - Josselyne Herman-Saccio
“Goal setting is very powerful, as long as you treat it like a game, not an expectation.” - Josselyne Herman-Saccio
“The powerful thing about goals is to debrief them. You debrief whether you were successful or failed.” - Josselyne Herman-Saccio
“The debrief is more valuable than even the result that got produced because you get to see what's missing, what would make a difference, or what was there that got in the way.” - Josselyne Herman-Saccio
“Debrief around goals even more powerful than the goals themselves.” - Josselyne Herman-Saccio
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